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Foster Children - How do they cope

Being away from familiar surroundings, people and family can be a difficult time especially for younger children who may not yet understand. This may result in bedwetting, over-activity, strange illness or withdrawal.

Each child is different and may need lots of reassurance and comfort.

Some children who have experienced difficulties may be confused and angry. They may even "test boundaries" to see how much they can get away with.

Carers need to be consistent and firm, but still loving.

Other children may need special help with severe emotional problems, or difficulties at school.

Some may even lie or steal or use alcohol or drugs or place themselves at risk.

Foster carers need to work closely with social workers, teachers, educational psychologists and doctors to help such children.

Where there are specific learning difficulties, medical problems or physical difficulties, foster carers need to follow guidance from parents and specialised advice from health services.

Children will either be looked after on a voluntary basis or on orders from a Children's Hearing